help for troubled teens
There are a wide range of solutions for troubled youth. Some options are better than others depending on the behavior and severity. For behavior that has irreversible consequences action needs to be taken quickly.
Short term solutions - Short term solutions are anywhere from three weeks to three months. Many times these are intense programs meant to help a student clear their minds and rethinking priorities. Most camps are considered short term solutions. Camps include boot camps, wilderness camps, therapeutic camps, and bible camp. In rare cases do these camps last longer than 90 days. Many times these camps are required before a student is enrolled in long term care.
Long Term Help - Many times long term help is needed for the safety and well being of a student. Private schools, residential treatment centers, boarding schools, and military schools provide long term guidance and therapy. Each school have their individual strengths. Matching your child's needs with the right school is a critical part of lasting change. An educational consultant can help you select the right place for your child. Remember that even among similar type schools their can be a wide range of differences. Some schools focus on special interests, like sports, while other schools focus on the college bound by helping with SAT prep and advanced credits. Because schools and students needs are so different it is imperative to perform meaningful research. Care should especially be taken for suicidal or violent teens.
Organizations & Groups - In some cases a student might find all the help they need in their city or neighborhood. Groups like AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) and NA (Narcotics Anonymous) have local chapters that have regular meetings. These groups try to reach out to youth and adults a like. Many people find a lot of success in these programs . Church groups also provide meaningful relationships and new friendships.
If your teen is exhibiting any of these behaviors it might be time to
start looking for help:
* Struggling with an eating disorder.
* Suicidal
* Constantly arguing and yelling
* Lying to parents, teachers, and good friends.
* Spending more time with new friends
* Running Away
* Strange mood swings and irritability
* Violence to others and self
* Experimenting with drugs
* Grades dropping at school
* Unable to pay attention (ADHD)
* Distancing themselves from the family and good friends
* Loss of interest in previous hobbies
* Sexual promiscuity
Additional Resources: The
Dangers of Treating Teens Like Children
First Steps When Selecting Youth Programs
Phone Numbers & Help Lines
Payment Options & Ideas